Success & Failures
Everyone had success or failure in their
life and both are taken into consideration when we talk about success or
failure. A lot of experience has gone into the subject of
success and failure. All that we need to learn our lessons from history. When
we study the life histories of successful people, we find that they have
certain qualities in common no matter which period of history they lived in.
Success leaves clues and if we identify and adopt the
qualities of successful people, we shall be successful. Similarly, there are
characteristics common in all failures. If we avoid those characteristics, then
we shall not be failures.
Success is no mystery, but simply the result of
consistently applying some basic principles. The reverse is just being
truthful: Failure is simply a result of making a few mistakes repeatedly. All
of this might sound too simplistic, but the fact is that most truths are very
simple. I am not saying they are easy, but they certainly are simple.
What makes a person successful? How do we recognize
success? To stock holders liquidation is the success, to some people success
might mean wealth. To others, it is reorganization, good health, good family,
happiness, satisfaction, and peace of mind. What this really tells us is that
success is subjective. It can mean different things to different people. The
definition that I feel summarizes “success” well is: In order to get the
winning edge, we need to strive for excellence, not perfection.
Successful people are not ten times
smarter than the people who fail. They may be better by a nose,
but the rewards are ten times bigger. We don’t need to improve 1000% in any one
area. All we need is to improve 1% in 1000 different areas, which is a lot
easier. That is the winning edge.
As far as parents are concern is only success should
go to their children due to which what subject to be chosen is the real task to
them right away, but all depends upon the planning, forecasting and of course
financial status along with the child’s caliber too. Finally some say the luck
also plays a major role in someone’s future. Is that true? No Never, hard work
will pay off is the real mantra to be taught to children.
Dear parents do not go to soothsayer to
decide about your beloved kid’s future. Try
and find out in which area of a subject they are interested and mold them as
per that. Let’s not try to make them as a money machine and remember
sometime the machine may go beyond a repairable condition.
All the best, I will be back soon
D.Soundarapandian
immortal_cs@sify.com
Puducherry
